I found myself loved and being loved in a happy healthy relationship when I start loving people the way I love instead of the way they want to be love. There’s only one way I try to love someone and that’s to love unconditionally. It’s not easy but with compromises, I found that it works just fine.
As for the way you want to be loved, I think communication plays a very important role. Your dude should be good in listening and again, compromising. Communication will lead you to a healthy happy relationship. It won’t be easy but it’s definitely high on my list towards a happy relationship.
I wish you all the best in finding your true love, my dear! Whoever it is, he’ll be a lucky dude ❤