I Have A Lot To Learn. I Know.

That’s why I’m here.

Image for post
Image for post
I need more wisdom. Photo by Annie Spratt on Unsplash

Someone just said my article is idiotic.

The weird thing is I don’t feel hurt or offended.

It was an article of mine about parenting. I stated that I’m not a parent yet and this person commented on that bit, saying that my article is idiotic and that I should try it again when I’m a parent.

Have I gotten something so wrong and so far off the mark?

It was an article based on my own observation of what’s happening in my family after my mother passed away.

I thought Ive made quite a good point in the article. I mean, this piece was curated under Parenting by Medium

I would like to make something clear through this piece.

That’s why I’m here in the first place.

I’ve been sharing my thoughts and views on issues that I think important and should be addressed. I’m trying my best to be a good, decent human being and for that to happen, I need your help.

I need you to teach me.

Yes, I’m not a parent yet and I probably know next to nothing about parenting (I know a little from going to that one parenting class but this is of course, just a tiny weeny bit).

But I’m learning now because I have to and I want to. I have a young teenage brother who’s still growing up and in the process of forming his identity. I have another brother who had been — like me — very close to my mother and is now dealing with his own issues.

My father is learning too. He was not as involved as my mother in parenting because as I said in my previous writing, he had been wired that way by society.

You see, we are all a bit lost here and I’m trying to make sense of this whole situation through my writing.

It is probably an idiotic piece of writing. After all, I’m not a parent yet and I was writing about parenting. What do I know?

But that was my take in this whole issue. That’s what I think would fix the situation where I currently found myself in.

So to my dearest reader who had called my piece idiotic, thank you. Thank you for reminding me that I still have a lot to learn. I’ve known it for a while now but it’s always good to be reminded. At the present moment, I am unable to give you a better insight as you suggested I should try it again when I’m a parent.

Dealing with my grief of losing my mother and watching my brothers deal with theirs as my father struggles to deal with his has been a great lesson.

I’ve learned so much about parenting from so many great writers here in Medium who share their parenting stories. To each and everyone of you, a sincere thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I am no expert in parenting. I know that.

I still have a lot to learn and I know that too.

So please, teach me.

Teach me so I can be a better person.

Written by

Writer by heart. Teacher (English, Yoga, Pilates) by trade. Avid reader. World traveller. Model. You can reach me at agneslouis3108@gmail.com.

Get the Medium app

A button that says 'Download on the App Store', and if clicked it will lead you to the iOS App store
A button that says 'Get it on, Google Play', and if clicked it will lead you to the Google Play store