You have the right to protect yourself. Wow. I never really thought from that perspective before. You definitely have a point. If I do to these people what they have done to me, then I might save others from experiencing the same. But just the thought of letting these people taste their own medicine makes me squirm. I don’t feel good. Hahaha. My approach so far is continue being kind to them because I feel like that’s just who I am and I shouldn’t let anyone change me. Especially those who are not very good to me! I feel like I should try my best not to do what they do because I know how bad it feels to be on the receiving end. I also believe in karma though. What you give out to the Universe will come back to you. I don’t want to wish anyone harm. Not even those who are not very good to me. I trust the Universe will serves everyone what he/she deserves, accordingly. I just have to watch out what I do I guess.

I’m just rambling. Hahahaha.

Thank you so much for reading and for your advice, Chris! I’ll definitely look out for myself better from now on :)

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